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Name: Ben
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Interests: Sports...Sports...Sports...oh...and did i mention sports...haha... I also love to cook...not clean...just cook...I love Rachel Ray...she is my domestic goddess...HAHAHA...anyhow, yeah, thats about it... oh, and sports...haha I also like movies, the law, tv, music, so essentially pop culture. I try and keep up with world events as well, but cnn.com is about as far as I go.
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Monday, November 09, 2009

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Lucky
By Jason Mraz
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A Weekend to Enjoy

So this past weekend has been quite an experience...Not cause I did so much, but mostly because the stuff I did do, well, it was enjoyable. 

So on Thursday, I had the opportunity to relive my Junior High and High School years when I went to go see one of my favorite groups in concert, Boyz II Men.  Can you believe that they've been in business for 19 years...WOW...awkward dances and the feeling of falling for a girl for the first time...it all came rushing back.  And its always awesome to just sit back and relive these experiences with a group of people  you dont know but who you're bonded by because of the fact that you all know and grew up with the same experiences.  I was given a random high five from a random lady because I kept singing along with the song and I was loud and proud, HAHA....but it was a great time...and I'm going again next year, holla...20th Anniversary of their start...I'm so there....

On Friday, I then put in a full day of work before I boarded a boat to face something I've never dealt with before...the Catalina Sprint Triathlon...It was something that I never thought I would do, but here I was heading over to see what I could do on the island off of California...and when I got there all I could say was...WHEN DID CATALINA GET SO HILLY?!?! hahahaha...after getting a dinner where my friends and I all began psyching each other out about the course, I fell asleep to a restless night as I could only think of was the next day's ordeal...

The next day I nervously got ready and grabbed my stuff before I headed to the start area to set up my items for the transition area and started to warm up before my swim.  As I looked around all I could see were rows of folks who were the epitome of a triathlete...Men and Women who trained for this event and did it for fun, and I'm showing up with the bare minimum of training...oh boy...was I in for a treat.  As they lined up the first wave to jump into the frigid ocean for the swim, I sat, waiting, wishing that I had bought that wetsuit that Chong told me to, haha...Then bam, I watched as the first group went...then the second, third and so on as I waited for my heat.  As one fellow Clydesdale shared with me, the worst part of going last is that you have to wait...Finally I jumped in and began my half mile trek around the pier to begin my race.

As I raced through the frigid water, all I could think was, I hope there are no sharks...and where is that damn marker I'm suppose to swim around...hahaha...As I kept switching between freestyle and breast strokes to get through this, all I could do was just keep driving myself.  Luckily, I didnt freeze, mostly cause I was working so hard to keep up...as I turned the 2nd marker, I noticed that one of the 2nd wave swimmers was still going...All I could think was, yes, at least I can catch someone...As I got closer, I noticed, wait, I know that guy.  It was Chong.  Chong was just trudging along and swimming the best he could, and had taken up a rest period with a kayak rescue person as I got closer.  We then both got back into gear and finished the heat together...the only time I could say that Chong and Ifinished a leg of the tri at the same time, haha...

I then raced to put on my shoes and get my bike.  As I walked through the transition area, I saw people coming back to switch to the run...WTF...hahaha...I then jumped on the bike and got into gear to climb the ever ascending hill that made up the biking leg of the triathlon. About halfway up the first lap, the adrenaline from the event started wearing off and I could feel my whole body going, shut downnnnnn...I slowed down and got off the bike and began walking to catch my breath.  As I started to peddle again, I couldnt get enough momentum to get my feet locked into the peddles, so I actually fell on the road, which was quite embarrassing and dangerous, as I landed in the roadway...numerous folks dodged me as I quickly got up to move off to the side.  At that point, I hit my first dilemma...My chain had come off the drivetrain and for the life of me, I couldn't put it back on.  I spent an eternity it seemed trying to put it on before a fellow racer stopped to help me out.  If it wasnt for her, its quite possible that my race would have ended there...and to be honest, I would have been ok, hahaha...I mean, shoot, I was dying, nearly got run over and I was pooped...it was a good college try, right, haha...but I got back on my bike and slowly continued my ascent up that gradually inclining, but neverending hill...DAMN YOU CATALINA...

As I trudged up the hill a second time, I noticed something, there were no other bike riders...WTF...as I finished my second lap, I asked them if anyone else was still riding, and there was no response...and I just sort of said...hmmm, perhaps I'll stop at two then, haha...Then one of the cops who was directing traffic yelled at me,"if you did, no one would ever know."

As I began finishing that lap, that statement kept running through my head...I'm so far behind, who would know?  Shoot, I could just finish two laps and start the run now, and I'm alllllll gravy, haha... but then I sat there going...damn it, I'll know, so I went straight back to finishing the last lap.  As I passed the cop who yelled at me, he gave me the thumbs up and said "I'm glad you did it, cause you'll always know." 

As I began trudging up the hill, my quads began to tell me, HEY YOU IDIOT, WHY DIDN'T YOU TRAIN MORE!!!  I just kept pushing and pushing...and to be honest, it's tough pushing on your own, but I couldnt bring myself to stop now, I mean, I started the 3rd damn lap, might as well finish it.  The best feeling was the turn around as I began my last swift descent down the hill knowing, DAMN RIGHT, I dont have to ride up you again...hahaha...As I got into the transition areas, all I see is people just lounging around after the ride, and all I could think was "Damn...dont let me be the only one to finish this on my own."  As I was changing into my running gear, one of the staff members came by and led me to the run area.  I'm butt tired, about to die, and this guy is half running to get me on the run path and to be honest, all I wanted to do was walk and get through this, but I hear people cheering me on and I just had sort of jog through it...did I want to? OH HELLL NO!  but I had to push through...sigh...what pride will do

As I started off on my run up the bigger hill in Catalina (why do we go from a slight hill to a bigger hill...sigh) I hear a couple of sets of footsteps coming up behind me...and as they walk in step next to me I notice that its my boys, Dave and Chong.  They had already finished the triathlon, but they jumped right back in to finish the last leg with me.  I was greatly touched by the gesture, especially since if I was as tired as I felt doing two legs, damn these guys must have been dying after finishing the whole thing.  As we three friends trudged up the hill, our staff escort followed behind us to make sure that no cars ran us over.  Like the tortoise, slowly I made my way up, just a half a step from always cramping...Ahhhh, the joys of being out of shape, HAHA...These guys walked the final 3 miles with me, and then left me to finish the last 200 feet on my own...As I passed that finish line with everyone cheering, I was glad of one thing, that I didn't quit.  Shoot, I may not have finished with a great time, but I did finish. 

After finishing, my body did a shut down...I took a shower and then all I wanted to do was die, haha...I'd lay down anywhere just to rest and to get through the situation.  But after I recovered the next day, all I could think of was, when do I get ready to train for the next one.  haha...I'm a glutton, shoot me, haha...


The three of us before the tri started...its the last time I would smile that day, HAHAHA!!!

So with that, with all the pain and soreness, I could say this, I did enjoy the event...And number 629 will come back and we will conquer again...HOLLAAAAAAA!!!!


Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Currently
Wonderful Tonight
By Eric Clapton
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Kobe and Lebron....I Can Dream Can't I



Well, at least I’m fairly sure now where LeBron James is going to be playing next season.

Los Angeles, most likely with the Lakers.

Stay with me a bit here, and when the Bulls are in Cleveland Thursday for the TNT national TV game with the Cavs, I doubt LeBron will have much to say on the subject. And this is hardly an overreaction to the Cavs slogging out of the starting gate this season with two losses and looking ready for pasture.

No, going to the Lakers makes all the sense in the world, and, at least to my view, fits LeBron better than it would other players of his caliber. Of which there’s basically only Kobe Bryant.

I’ve heard this scenario from some NBA people, though I’ve heard every other one as well, from staying in Cleveland to New York to New Jersey to running Berkshire Hathaway for Warren Buffett.

The general consensus seems to be LeBron stays in Cleveland given you can be a star from anywhere, the New York teams generally are a mess and would mean a step back in his competitive career, and he likes Cleveland. Makes sense and it probably is the second best option, though I strongly question the Cavs roster and decision making to help make LeBron a champion. Michael Jordan was able to accept the lack of titles into the late 1980s because the Bulls were improving and going farther each season. It appears the Cavs are backsliding.

The obvious reason this never gets discussed is no one can see James hooking on with Bryant. I really cannot understand why not.

How good a team would that be with Bryant, James, Pau Gasol and Lamar Odom? Supposedly it would look like James searching out a place to win a championship instead of lifting his team to one. Allegedly a no-no.

But Bryant is 31; James is 24. Bryant has probably three really high level seasons left before some sort of a transition. It was the transition Shaq could never accept and why I think the Lakers dynasty broke up. Not because of Kobe. But because Shaq refused to be viewed as a supporting player to Bryant, and the Lakers understood that. So they traded him. Clearly the right move.

The Lakers are no sure thing to win the championship with the Celtics healthy and the Magic deep. But you add LeBron and it’s hard to imagine anyone beating them the next three or four years.

So then Kobe, working toward incredible immortality on the way to maybe 10 or 11 championships, backs off some to allow James to be the dominant figure when James is 27 or 28 and Bryant is looking at 35. Bryant could ease into a brilliant supporting role while the Lakers continue winning titles, and, in the end, like base hits, they count how many. Not how you got them.

The big reason I believe this could occur and work is because James is an unusual superstar. Jordan never would do it, and I doubt Kobe would. But you watched James in the Olympics and he seemed to embrace the supporting role, rebounding and moving the ball. He’s always said he wants to play with those Olympic teammates, and it doesn’t seem like the Cavs payroll can accommodate that.

Yes, James could go to Miami to join Dwyane Wade, and that’s possible. I’ve heard it speculated often and it puts James on the other side of the Finals from the Lakers with the Celtics having a short window. Of course, there is Dwight Howard.

Also, James is a unique superstar because he’s a very willing passer, more so than virtually every league leading scorer. He doesn’t fight the double and seems to have trusted teammates from Day 1, a trait we never saw with Jordan or Bryant. I don’t think James would have any problem submerging his ego for Bryant’s for a while knowing full well his talent already is surpassing Bryant’s. The transition under a coach like Phil Jackson would become obvious. It was Phil who practically begged Shaq to take that Lakers’ $20 million offer and accept the transition like Kareem did with Magic. Shaq was just too stubborn.

James also is unique in the way he has been so devoted to his group of friends from his youth, a star who doesn’t seem to chase other celebrities but is devoted to the group. I can see James comfortable in any role with a top team like the Lakers.

But James does have his sizeable ego. You’ve got to if you’re OK with a 10-story mural of yourself across the street from your office.

James has often talked about expanding his empire, and lately has been involved with books and movies. So where else but in L.A. would you want to be to be involved in the entertainment industry?

And, really, everyone wants to play in L.A. The weather is fabulous. You can be a star and have privacy because there are so many other stars. And then when you want to be a star you can because it is a city of stars. And basketball is by far No. 1, the only big city in the U.S. where you can say that. Plus, owner Jerry Buss knows stars sell and has been the most successful at recruiting and paying for stars.

I’ve heard the Clippers mentioned, though I see James preferring to join the best rather than try to overcome the best from a distance.

So how does it get done?

The Lakers certainly have no salary cap room. They are in no position to pay James, which remains the No. 1 priority for all free agents. James just has to explain to the Cavs he’s leaving. If they don’t accommodate him, he’s going to New York or Miami and they get nothing. But if they do in a sign and trade to save the franchise, they get a young, potential All-Star center in Andrew Bynum. Maybe Lamar Odom as well or Ron Artest. Draft picks, some pieces like Jordan Farmar. The Cavs can compete in the East with a star center and some pieces added to what they have. It’s better than nothing as cap room doesn’t mean anything in Cleveland. No one’s going there.

Look, I believe James has no idea yet what he wants to do next summer. But I also believe the Lakers’ scenario makes the most sense for him if he wants a chance to be considered among the greatest winners of all-time. I believe that’s what he’s about now, and he accomplishes that only with the Lakers.



Well, I can't say that this article didn't raise a tingle for me, haha...As much as I don't like Lebron for his behavior in last year's playoffs, who stops this duo.  Its like the ultimate Michael - Scottie reincarnation.  And it also sets up a much greater line of succession for the Lakers.  Do you trade an all star center to get it done?  OH HELL YEAH.  The best part, Pau Gasol is a perfect bridge player, because at 28, he's right in the middle of the two, able to work off both of them for years to come.  Will this bore the hell out of the NBA as we win every title for the next five years?  probably, but hey, I'm not here to entertain the NBA, I'm here to cheer on the Lakers...oh boy, can I dream...hahaha


Wednesday, August 26, 2009

For the Over 30 Crowd

THE SPOILED UNDER-30 CROWD!!!


If you are 30 or older you will think this is hilarious!!!!
 

When I was a kid, adults used to bore me to tears with their tedious diatribes about how hard things were. When they were growing up; what with walking Twenty-five miles to school every morning.... Uphill....barefoot... BOTH ways Yadda, yadda, yadda

And I remember promising myself that when I grew up, there was no way in hell I was going to lay a bunch of crap like that on my kids about how hard I had it and how easy they've got it!

But now that... I'm over the ripe old age of thirty, I can't help but look around and notice the youth of today.

You've got it so easy! I mean, compared to my childhood, you live in a damn Utopia!

And I hate to say it, but you kids today, you don't know how good you've got it!

I mean, when I was a kid we didn't have The Internet. If we wanted to know something, we had to go to the damn library and look it up ourselves, in the card catalog!!

There was no email!! We had to actually write somebody a letter - with a pen!
Then you had to walk all the way across the street and put it in the mailbox and it would take, like, a week to get there! Stamps were 10 cents!

Child Protective Services didn't care if our parents beat us. As a matter of fact, the parents of all my friends also had permission to kick our ass! Nowhere was safe!

There were no MP3' s or Napsters! If you wanted to steal music, you had to hitchhike to the damn record store and shoplift it yourself!
 
Or you had to wait around all day to tape it off the radio and the DJ would usually talk over the beginning and @#*% it all up! There were no CD players! We had tape decks in our car. We'd play our favorite tape and
"eject" it when finished and the tape would come undone. Cause - that's how we rolled, dig?

We didn't have fancy crap like Call Waiting! If you were on the phone and somebody else called they got a busy signal, that's it!

And we didn't have fancy Caller ID either!  When the phone rang, you had no idea who it was! It could be your school, your mom, your boss, your bookie, your drug dealer, a collections agent, you just didn't know!!! You had to pick it up and take your chances, mister!

We didn't have any fancy Sony Playstation video games with high-resolution 3-D graphics! We had the Atari 2600! With games like 'Space Invaders' and 'Asteroids'. Your guy was a little square! You actually had to use your imagination!! And there were no multiple levels or screens, it was just one screen... forever!  And you could never win. The game just kept getting harder and harder and faster and faster until you died! Just like LIFE!

You had to use a little book called a TV Guide to find out what was on!  You were screwed when it came to channel surfing! You had to get off your ass and walk over to the TV to change the channel! NO REMOTES!!!

There was no Cartoon Network either! You could only get cartoons on Saturday Morning. Do you hear what I'm saying!?! We had to wait ALL WEEK for cartoons, you spoiled little rat-bastards!

And we didn't have microwaves, if we wanted to heat something up we had to use the stove! Imagine that!

That's exactly what I'm talking about! You kids today have got it too easy. You're spoiled.. You guys wouldn't have lasted five minutes back in 1980 or before!

Regards,
The Over 30 Crowd


Monday, August 24, 2009

The 3 Day Rule

 

If you know me, you know that one of my favorite movies of all time is Swingers.  (BTW, if you havent seen it, then shame on you, especially if you're a man...this is the ultimate dude film...must see.)  But one of my favorite scenes is when Mike gets a number from a beautiful baby at the bar and he goes back to chat with his boys and their discussion is when Mikey is allowed to call the girl.  What goes down is the anatomy and the birth for some folks of the 3 day rule.  Essentially it states that from when you receive the number from the girl that you have to wait at least 3 days before you give her a call.  This is done in order to make sure the girl doesnt think that the guy is too desperate and to sort of give the guy a cooling off period so he doesnt seem desperate...well, if you watch the next scene, you see one of the hardest things to see...Mikey just sort of buring himself deeper and deeper...more painful than any horror movie...hahaha...

The reason I bring this up is because all the times that I've gotten a girls number (I think that I can count them on my hands, haha), and I always wondered, when do I call.  Mostly cause I'm a rule breaker, I generally call before the 3 days, although I have been known to wait like 5 (mostly due to being busy)...but I always felt that the number 3 was so contrived...like, isnt it easier just to call because, well, you had some chemistry...or better yet, just to call because, well, if the other person gave you their number, they must have intended for you to call them.  And I think that if wait that long, why are you following a certain program.  I mean, relationships arent programs...I always felt they were more organic that grew out of what was right for that couple at that time, not what the program said was right.  So for some gals, you should call on day 3, while for others, well, calling before then is ok...and if your Vince Vaughn's character, you wait a week, HAHA....

So my question for all you folks is this...what do you think of the 3 day rule?  And how do you feel about it?  For the ladies, if the guy calls after 3 days, how would you feel?  And guys, what do you think is the optimal time to contact a gal?  Inquiry minds want to know...so let it out folks.



Wednesday, May 20, 2009

And the plot thickens...

So...I went back to Saks to see if they'd take the bag back again.  I spoke to another manager, and I was once again stonewalled, although they did apologize for the previous manager's behavior, however, no follow through when it comes to the item itself...which, of course, gets my mind spinning on how I could find enough people who fit the class to file a class action lawsuit against Saks...muhahahaha...

So as I'm contemplating this, my friend T finds out what happened and it happens to infuriate her...Now if you know T, you've come to realize that she's a lil like Bruce Banner...you don't want to see her mad, haha...cause then you get the Hulk, errrrr...Super T....haha...anyhow, she makes me drive her to Sak's and she takes the bag in to "re-negotiate" the situation and try and get me my money back.  However, in order to diffuse the situation, I was sent away to shop at another store...so as I dawdle along at Macy's Men, trying to decide if I really needed a new polo or not, I get a call to come out.  I'm half excited, mostly because I know that if T wants to get me my money, she would argue til she has no breath left...I get out, and I see her standing, waiting...Bag still in hand...as we drive back, I'm a bit sad, but then she relays the situation to me...

The store manager of Sak's agreed that the behavior was egregious...she also agreed that the store had to follow through on it return...HOWEVER...due to the way that the stores are set up, she would not take the return back because it would affect their profit and loss statements...so the only recourse to getting my money back is to take the bag back to NYC and get it returned...and then haggle with the NYC office...ugh...

So I have a moral victory...and a possible opportunity to get my money back...but now is it worth it?  Should I just auction the bag off and take 90 cents on the dollar?  Do I want to deal with all that?  so what do you all think?  let me know...

BTW, I still would love to pursue a class action, haha...





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